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I had a big gathering at my going away party in Chiang Mai. It included some of my first friends there, including Ooy (basically the first Thai person I met in Thailand back in February 2009) who just happened to be taking a vacation in Chiang Mai during my last week there. Kate, my first Couch Surfer, who never really left Chiang Mai after I Hosted her in August 2009, was there with one of her friends whom I had met before when she came to visit Kate over a year prior. There were also some new faces. We ate at Dayli, my favorite restaurant, and then went in for a quick visit to Tawandang, my favorite country bar. We didn't stay long as most people don't enjoy Thai country as much as I do. In the end, we all just stood outside of a 7/11 near Tawandang and drank cheap beers from there on the street. Really, that's the best thing we could have done as Tawandang is too loud to talk in.
Some of my friends went home and I said my final goodbyes to them. Then I
drove down to Bangkok Cafe, my favorite little dive bar that I discovered in my
first 6 months in Chiang Mai. My guest house was near by, so if I drank
too much to drive it would have been ok because I was going to walk home
anyway. I sold my motorcycle to my friend Joe before I went to Laos,
but he had an extra so he let me borrow it while I was in town. That was
very nice of him as it had been my bike for over a year and the first motor
vehicle I had ever owned.
About half way between Tawandang and Bangkok Cafe, it hit me. This was my
last drive on my motorcycle, the 110cc Suzuki Smash with a Winnie the Pooh
decal on the seat, as well as my last drive through Chiang Mai.
Everything I was passing I would see for the last time. Sure, I'll go
back, but Chiang Mai changes quickly. And I'll go back for a visit, it
won't be my home. I passed the Shell gas station where I always filled up
and argued with the staff to change my oil whenever I needed an oil change and
they'd always say "we don't do that here" and I'd say "yes you
do, I've had it done here before several times" until they finally just do
it for me, I passed the road that led to where my apartment used to be, I
passed Gad Suan Kaew, the ugly brick shopping center where I did most of my
high-end shopping and where I'd go to see movies on weekends, I passed the
North West corner of the Old City walls where Kate and I used to sit on clear nights
and drink boxed wine and eat cheese and real bread we'd bough from the
foreigner super market, I passed along the moat of the Old City that was the epicenter
of the Songkran water festival, I passed the North Gate Jazz Co-op, one of the
coolest places for expats to hang out on Tuesday nights, I passed the LA Bike
Shop where I bought my bicycle that was my only transportation for my first 6
months, I passed Moon Mueang Rd. Soi 7 where I lived for the first 6 months,
and then there was Bangkok Cafe. Kate and Joe were already there. I
guess I drove pretty slowly. Kate said she expected me to drive slowly
and understood why I was crying when I got there.
We drank some Leo Beers and rocked out to the hip western and Thai pop-rock
hits the cover band cranked out. We were out pretty late. I made it
a point to not get drunk because I had to catch a flight the next
morning. At around 3:30am I
said goodbye to Kate and Joe and walked back towards my guest house.
I got a short sleep. Thank goodness my flight was from Chiang Mai and not
Bangkok or I would have missed my
flight. I though I had an international flight to Kuala
Lumpur at 10:00am
the next morning. I left my guest house at about 7:50. The airport wasn't too far away, Chiang Mai is
not big. My plan was arrive at 8:30,
giving me 1 and 1/2 hours before my flight. I pulled out my reservation
and saw that my flight was actually at 9:10,
not 10:00. That gave me just 40
minutes before an international flight! Again, thank goodness I was
flying out of Chiang Mai. When I got to the airport, there was no one in
line at the check in. There was no one in line at the immigration.
No one was in line at security. I was the only non-airport staff I
saw. Even with just 40 minutes before takeoff, I went from arriving at
the airport to sitting in a seat by the gate in less than 10 minutes.
Everyone else had come early. I even had to sit and wait for another 10
minutes before boarding.
It was a two hour flight to Kuala Lumpur,
the capital of Malaysia.
I flew there because that's the hub for Air Asia, the local budget
airline. My flight from Chiang Mai to KL was just $45. When I
arrived I made my way to my Couch Surfing Host Mason's apartment. I only
stayed one night. My flight from KL to Taipei
was the next morning (that was the one at 10:00am).
Mason and I chatted in the day about his planned trip to Japan
and then in the evening we went to a Couch Surfing event. It was dinner,
then shisha, then a bar. I had a nice chat with an Iranian guy and a local
Malaysian girl. I had one very expensive beer in Malaysia.
It's weird; beer is expensive because Malaysia
is a Muslim country. But alcohol isn't illegal. Well, it is if
you're Muslim. All Malaysians have their religion on their ID cards and
if they are Muslims they have to follow Islamic law on top of the laws for
everyone. So if a cop catches two Malaysians drinking and one is a Muslim
and the other isn't, the Muslim is punished, but not the other person.
The local Islamic law does not apply to non Malaysians so the Iranian guy, who
is a Muslim, could legally drink because he's not Malaysian. But beer is
still expensive. My Host, Mason, who's ethnic Chinese and not a Muslim,
explained that, basically, alcohol is expensive and porn is blocked on the
internet. I joked that if beer is expensive, porn should be unblocked for
people who pay a higher rate for their internet service. "If it's
bad, it's not illegal, it's just expensive."
I got up really early the next morning, before the sun, to catch my plane to Taipei.
Even though the flight was 50 minutes later than my flight out of Chiang Mai, Kuala
Lumpur is a much bigger city and has a much busier
airport. I thought I was fine for time. But then I got hit with the
first of many Taiwan
related setbacks. The check in counter wouldn't let me board the plane
without an onward ticket, that is, a flight out of Taiwan.
I told the check in lady that I was going to Taiwan
to work. She asked for my work permit. I told her it was nearly
impossible to get a work permit outside of Taiwan and that I would get one once
I got there. She said she wouldn't check me in unless I showed either a
work permit, a Taiwanese ID, or an onward ticket. Check in time ended in
20 minutes. With all of my stuff I had to rush to the Air Asia counter,
ask about their cheapest ticket, any time, to anywhere, out of Taipei
within the next 30 days. I was told it was back to KL. I only had
Thai Baht in my wallet. I then had to rush to a money changer, change my
Baht to Malay Ringgit, rush back to the Air Asia ticket counter, and spend 1/3
of my savings on an airline ticket that I wasn't even going to use.
Because I bought it in cash, I couldn't cancel. My debit card had just
expired and my new one hadn't been activated yet. It was money down the
drain. But I just made it in time to not miss my flight.
I got to Taipei on August 7th. I've been Couch Surfing every day so I haven't needed to spend money on a place to stay. Food is cheap here, but not Thailand
cheap. Entertainment is not cheap here. I spent the first few days
looking for a job. I got many interviews and settled on working for the
Shane English School Taipei. It's a private English school that is
British owned and run. My training starts tomorrow.
I admit, my first few weeks in Taiwan
were not as exciting as my first few weeks in Thailand.
When I arrived in Thailand
in February 2009, I was just beginning my life after college. I was only
leaving behind my life as a student. I had money saved up. Everything
was bright. But this time, I miss Thailand
terribly. I don't regret coming here, but I am very aware that I have
left something good behind. I also have very little money now. I
have enough to get by, but not enough to go enjoy myself. I spend most of
my days reading books in parks and walking around by myself. I don't have
any friends here. My command of Chinese has gone way down and even at its
prime was not as good as my command of Thai is now. Thailand
started big, full of adventure and travel; but Taiwan
has started slow and will have to slowly build up as I start to save
money. My pay at the beginning will be the lowest and it should rise over
the year. My Chinese is sure to get better too. Everyone I know who
has lived in Taipei has loved it; I
just don't know what there is yet. But I really look forward to being
back to work, setting goals, learning new things, discovering this new
city, and making new friends.

















































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